Online comments are often seem so anonymous, many leave common courtesy, manner and language behind when they post. Here are some rules for making comments on this site.

• Be specific. Personalized comments show authors that you’re genuinely interested in what they have to say, and that you actually took the time to read what they wrote. This doesn’t mean you need to write a long comment, just be sure to articulate why you felt compelled to say something in the first place. Did you learn something new? Did you have a similar experience? Do you want to voice a different perspective? Quote the author directly if you need to clarify what specific sentences you’re responding to.
• Stay on topic. Take care not to diverge too far from the subject of the original post. If you end up in an off-topic exchange with other commenters, message them directly to avoid distracting from the comments left for the post author.
• Be nice. Even if you disagree with someone, it’s never appropriate to use insults or other offensive language. Rude comments don’t add any value to a discussion, and only divert attention away from the author’s work. It’s perfectly fine to offer constructive criticism, just be polite. If you see others writing disrespectful or incendiary comments, or you receive such comments on your own blog, ignore/delete them. Acknowledging them will only encourage the aggressor, so don’t waste your time. Personal insults will not be tolerated. Language may be “salty” but keep it in check.
• Keep it brief. The more concise your comment, the easier it will be for others to read and respond to. In most cases, a few sentences  is plenty.

Rich Griffith, Tom Vitt, Scott Royce, Bobby Doty